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30% of UK adults (16.5m) conceal their earnings from their partner
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Millennials most likely to keep pay secret (38%)
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45% say financial control is the biggest relationship red flag
LONDON, March 11, 2026 /PRNewswire/ — Nearly a third of UK adults (30%) – the equivalent of 16.5 million people – deliberately conceal their earnings from their partner, according to new research from Novuna Personal Finance.
The findings highlight a growing tension in modern relationships: many couples expect honesty, but a significant minority are quietly ringfencing money as a personal safety net.
Younger generations most guarded about income
Millennials are the most financially discreet generation, with 38% admitting they’ve withheld details of their salary from their partner. More broadly, 42% of Millennials say they do not fully disclose their overall financial position within a relationship.
Gen Z follows closely: 34% admit to financial secrecy, and 53% say they have kept savings or investments hidden.
By contrast, just 24% of over-55s say they’ve concealed financial information – meaning Millennials are almost twice as likely as older adults to obscure details of their earnings.
Secrecy spans demographics and life stages, but it is more common among groups facing higher day-to-day financial pressure:
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36% of men conceal a savings account vs 27% of women
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39% of Greater London residents admit to financial secrecy vs a 30% UK average
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36% of private renters hide financial information vs 24% of outright homeowners
Financial control is Britain’s biggest relationship “red flag”
While many people keep some financial information to themselves, they take a far harder line on power dynamics.
Nearly half of Brits (45%) say financial control – restricting a partner’s independence or access to money – is the biggest relationship red flag, making it the top dealbreaker nationwide.
“Requesting financial support early in a relationship” ranks second at 40%, rising to 59% among divorced respondents.
The research also shows a split in what men and women see as dealbreakers:
Despite the prevalence of secrecy, expectations of openness remain strong: 29% say ongoing secrecy would be a dealbreaker.
The “sandwich generation” feels most exposed
Gen X- often described as the “sandwich generation”, balancing children and ageing parents – appears to be under the greatest strain.
More than one in five (21%) say they could not support themselves financially if their relationship ended, the highest proportion of any generation. Fewer than half (48%) say they maintain a dedicated financial independence fund, the lowest recorded.
